Saturday 12 September 2015

Nothing as annoying as "wife material"

Why does some women brag about being wife material? What do you exactly mean by that? Are you trying to tell me that there is one particular way of behaving,acting,talking,dressing etc woman needs to practice in case she wants to get married? I can't agree with that. It's true love and respect we have for one we love that gradually changes and shape us into better people once we get involved with the right person,not some silly tittle you attach to yourself because you cook and clean well. 
I believe each of us have our soulmate somewhere on this planet earth. That one person that will love you and understand you and your nature and all your mistakes without judging,person that will accept you just the way you are,with all your perfect imperfections and at the same time still be capable of changing and influencing you (effortlessly!) for better and that is the same way you will affect his/hers life (naturally).
The way I was annoyed with the whole idea of marriage,y'all can just imagine what kind of "wife material " I used to be.In fact,I think I was doing everything opposite of what is considered as "wife material" behavior. Simply out of my stubbornness,revolt and rebellion against fake moral norms of society we living in (ironically,Im still married today lol).
Before you try to impress and give the best of you to someone,make sure person is willed and capable of handling your worst and hold you down in different situations life can bring. 
Before trying to be "wife material" so badly,try and be your true self first. Real you. Natural you. Nothing to prove,I swear. That is the only way you will find true love- someone who will love real you and not impression of you that you created.
When you get rid of mask and embrace your true nature you will be capable of meeting The One that will love you for who you are,the one that will know your worst and never use it against you. And that one is the only one who deserves a good woman in you in every possible way.

17 comments:

  1. Yeah true....I agree with you jare

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  2. God bless you for this. I live this!

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  3. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
    I swear I am so sick and tired of people in my church telling me I am not marriage material simply cos they cant handle me...it was really getting me down until my boo said sometin to me..who is the right person to determine that? Him
    After all we've known each other for 5 years before dating and it is heading to marriage.
    Simply cos we won't conform to their idea of a wife material they think it is so for every man.
    👊

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  4. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
    I swear I am so sick and tired of people in my church telling me I am not marriage material simply cos they cant handle me...it was really getting me down until my boo said sometin to me..who is the right person to determine that? Him
    After all we've known each other for 5 years before dating and it is heading to marriage.
    Simply cos we won't conform to their idea of a wife material they think it is so for every man.
    👊

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  5. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
    I swear I am so sick and tired of people in my church telling me I am not marriage material simply cos they cant handle me...it was really getting me down until my boo said sometin to me..who is the right person to determine that? Him
    After all we've known each other for 5 years before dating and it is heading to marriage.
    Simply cos we won't conform to their idea of a wife material they think it is so for every man.
    👊

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    1. 😘😘😘😘.. I thought I was crazy, in fact my friends ad family say am abnormal.... Now I have seen my fellow abnormal sisters.... 😘😂😁

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