Saturday 26 September 2015

You want to get married so bad? This might help you..

People crave love. We fantasies about ideal romance with our soulmate . We want to settle down. Its all good and natural. We are humans and love is our purpose.
But why do people force on marriage so much without even having a correct idea of what marriage suppose to be about?("Will you get married,Why you not married,When u go marry,marry,marry,marry,marry").........................................

Getting married just for sake of getting married without minding a quality and nature of relationship between two people might be equal prison.

Don't get forced into getting married (because you are "not getting any younger"),don't marry because you developed habit of spending time with someone  or for the sake of pleasing other people's expectations.

Don't force/blackmail/pressure other person into marriage,no matter circumstances,because if one is not truly happy with idea of spending life with you,truth is - he will never be capable of making you truly happy and instead of joy and happiness you deserve your life might turn into agony and frustration.

Don't let society pressure you.
Don't settle.
There is NOTHING to be desperate for.
You have nothing to prove.
Follow your instincts. Trust your intuition.


Love is free - marry WHO you truly want and WHEN you want and let it be mutual.
Then you will be free to experience beauty and magic of sharing your precious life with another human being . I promise.
Love y'all

5 comments:

  1. Enough said!!! Love u more... #Cyndysays

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  2. Lovely writeup no one should be pressured into doing what they do not want society or not

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  3. Lovely writeup no one should be pressured into doing what they do not want society or not

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  4. Sonnia you inspire people alot.....lemmi share this with a friend maybe she will understand it best when it comes from you with such meaningful words which are full of facts.Love from Kenya

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